Wouldn't it be great to have a beautiful planet without all of that?
Wouldn't it be great if we could just cut this out of our lives?
We all know this is not going to happen.
Then how can we use these negative people to clean-up our environment?
Is this really possible? Yes! Yes! Yes!
But the truth is that we have (some of) these parts in us too. They are part of our shadow side as Caroline Myss and Andrew Harvey speak about in the Shadow Course. You can watch these free videos. https://www.soundstrue.com/store/shadow-course/sacred-path.
We cannot get those negative people to change, but we can use these negative people to heal ourselves and our environment.
We can start with acknowledging that we have these dark tendencies and instead of pretending they are not there. Pretending they are not there, doesn't change our and the collective consciousness. When we bring light to our shadow, we heal ourselves and the environment! And the wonderful bonus is that we become happier and more successful!
Example 1 - Someone is not pulling her weight
I am a member of a few committees. In one of the committees, we were discussing how one of our colleagues was not sending us important documents. We have been trying for a very long time to get her to comply. During the meeting I got all the committee members to apply the three fingers pointing back. We all identified what we saw in this lady, we recognised how we did the same, and we made the plan on how we were going to change ourselves.
The very next morning we received some of the documents and soon more followed.
We are now all pulling our weight. We resolved the issue by changing ourselves. This person who we experienced as irritating, has helped us to run the organisation better. This incident demonstrated to all committee members the power of the three fingers pointing back. Hopefully they will use it more in other areas in their lives too.
I live in South Africa and we have many racial issues. When I look at most of the politicians, I see they are constantly looking backwards. They are looking at how bad things were in the past and use that as a justification for their current choices. I don't believe their current choices are going to be good for our country at all, so these politicians irritate me.
Again, I used my favourite technique of the three fingers pointing back.
I looked at where am I looking back on my pain in the past and let that pain determine my current choices and actions? I realise I do it all the time. I look back on my many of my unsuccessful ventures and some experiences of betrayal and I use these to justify why I am holding back now.
My pretended advice to the politicians is, "Look forward focus on what you want to achieve. Let's focus on what is working and use those as examples for change. Let's let go of the hurt of the past! We are not the same people we were in the past."
This is what I am doing now. I am moving forward with joy and keep focusing on where I am going.
My husband snores. He would keep me awake and I would get more and more irritated.
Off course I never snore,right, so in order to apply the three fingers pointing back, I looked at what snoring symbolises to me. Snoring for me is that my head is filled with noise that keeps me awake. The next question is "Where do I fill my head with stuff that keeps me awake?" I realised that I keep myself awake with noisy thoughts of self-doubt and worry about things I have no control over." My pretended advice to my husband would be "Please keep quiet or make soothing sounds" We know he has no control over that while he is sleeping, but I know now that I had to empty my mind or focus on things that bring me love joy and peace. As soon as I did that, he stopped snoring.
The next day something amazing happened. When I went to bed he was snoring badly. As soon as I got into bed, he stopped. He still snores occasionally, but it doesn't worry me, because I now focus on creating inner-peace and I fall asleep.
My snoring husband has helped me to create a peacefull inner-environment.
My inner-peace, can be used to create inner-peace in others.
Instead of quickly booting out all the draining, negative and irritating people. I suggest that we use them to identify our shadow side, so that we can change ourselves. This contributes to changing the collective consciousness from human-unkind to human-kind. When the collective consciousness changes, the environment will change too. This is how we can use the negative people to clean-up our environment.
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