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 What can we

do for you?

Who do we serve?

The life You Want assists individuals and organisations who feel frustrated, stuck, depressed or even powerless in (parts) of their lives. They need help with health, wealth, learning, relationships, or something else. Our promise to our clients is to assist them to:

  • Change what they can
  • Accept, what they cannot change
  • And have the wisdom to know the difference

How do we serve?

We assist people with changing their lives, by giving their subconscious programming an upgrade, so that it is in line with their conscious desires and it is equipped for modern daily life. When the subconscious mind has changed, their choices and actions change automatically too, which will lead to different results. Why is this important?

Our subconscious mind runs the show of our life 95% or the time. It is mainly shaped between conception and age seven. This means that 95% of the time, we are like a old fashioned seven year old, having to deal with modern adult problems. When the subconscious programming is conflicting with our dreams and goals, we will feel frustrated, stuck and even powerless, because we sabotage our own great intentions. When we change the subconscious programming, the changes we make feel natural and relatively easy.

What solutions  do we have for you?

We believe that it is possible and important to use techniques which are simple, highly effective, affordable, and accessible. We have a range of free and paid products and services to serve you.

  1. Consultations for individuals and groups
  2.  Apphirmations App
  3.  Courses
  4. Public Speaking

All our products and services facilitate change on a subconscious level, which makes it so much easier to implement the changes.

We have been successful with the following subjects

  • Abuse
  • Addiction
  • Anxiety
  • Allergies
  • Career choices – Life purpose
  • Giving up smoking
  • Health issues
  • Prosperity
  • Raising children, including ADD/ADHD
  • Relationships rescue
  • Self-confidence
  • Stress management
  • Trauma release
  • Weight issues

For Businesses & Groups

  • Team Tune-up
  • Public speaking
  • Specialised Apphirmations for groups

What is the difference between

Peace Mediation & Peace Facilitation?


Peace Mediation

both parties have to co-operate. We are dependent on the willingness of the other party to be part of the mediation process.

Peace Facilitation

With our unique peace facilitation process, we assist you in creating peace, even if the other party is not interested. This  puts the power back into your hands.

Who is

Hanna Kok


Hanna Kok is the founding member of  The Life You Want, a personal well-being and peace facilitation organisation. She was born in the Netherlands where she grew up and completed her teacher’s training. She moved to Southern Africa in 1984. She lived for 12 years in Mpharane, a rural village in Lesotho, where she and her husband ran a trading station. She has been living in South Africa since 1997.

She is one of South Africa’s leading Brain Gym® consultants and trainers, giving her a solid foundation in Educational Kinesiology. In addition she’s a qualified NAET allergy practitioner and qualified as a medical intuitive through her THETA Healing™ studies.

We incorporate all Hanna Kok’s skills and knowledge in our programs that have helped thousands of people, just like you, to let go of the baggage that is holding them back (like allergies, stress, difficult relationships), improve their self-esteem and shift from surviving, to thriving.

The Brain Gym

The Brain Gym program promotes a series of exercises to improve academic performance, lower anxiety levels and help individuals..


NAET® was discovered by Dr. Devi S. Nambudripad in November of 1983. Nambudripad’s Allergy Elimination Techniques, also known..

Theta Healing®

The Theta Healing® technique is a meditation technique and spiritual philosophy – not specific to one religion but accepting them all..