How to have what you want, made easy

How to have what you want, made easy

Why is it hard to get what you want?

Our mindWe use our mind to go after our goals and desires, to get what we want. The “problem” is that we have three minds and we don’t know how to use them optimally. The minds we have are:

  1. The conscious
  2. The subconscious
  3. The super-conscious

The Conscious mind

We activate this mind when we give our full attention to something. We use the conscious mind to pursue our dreams, goals and desires. Most people only use this mind 5% of the time, or less. Then who is in charge the rest of the time?

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Stay Safe and Sane

Stay Safe and Sane

prisoner in my own home

  • How are you doing so far?
  • What is it like for you to be in lock down?
  • What are you doing to stay safe and sane?

When life is abnormal, we need to put in a little extra effort to safe and sane. Did you know that your safety and sanity are closely linked?

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How has your life changed the last few weeks?

How has your life changed the last few weeks?

I am writing this email in my home office. I have just come off a webinar that is replacing our face to face meetings. Are you worried? Are you infected? Can our whispers help you cope?

Even though times are challenging, we do have a choice, are we going to get bitter or better? Are we going to get upset or are we going use these challenging times as an opportunity to grow? How can we be pro-active?

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Hard work, what is that?

Hard work, what is that?

Hard work, what is that?overworked emoji

Everybody tells you that you cannot become successful without putting in the hard work. But was is this hard work that is required of us? Does this mean that we must put in long hours and keep pushing and pulling until we are there? And what is the personal cost? Do we now have to give up sleep, family time and only work? Do we reach the top, while leaving every body who is important to us, behind?

The answer to this question depends on how you are going to do the hard work. You can do it as described above in a physical way, or you can do the hard work in a non-physical way.

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February, is it really the month of love?

February, is it really the month of love?

abuse statsFor many February is supposed to be the month of love, yet why does love hurts for so many?

Did you know that 1 out 3 women experience some form of abuse?
For men this statistic is 1 out of 8.

This means that of the adults in South Africa at least 10,000,000 people experience some form abuse. And how many children experience abuse? How many are bullied at home or at school?

How can we replace abuse with respect?

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How To Be In Charge In This Crazy World

How To Be In Charge In This Crazy World

We seem to have no control over what is happening in our lives. Rape, murder, abuse, crimes, accidents, and more, are the order of the day. How can we be in charge of our life, in this crazy world? \

The first step we need to take is to accept that we have co-created everything in our lives.

We attract what happens in our lives. Does this mean that it is our fault that we got raped, abused or something else? It is not about who’s fault it is. It is about accepting it happened and taking responsibility how we respond and doing what we can to prevent it in the future. We are not a complete victim.

According to the Law of Attraction, we attract everything into our lives and especially through our emotions. Research has proven that criminals don’t choose their victims randomly. What we radiate affects how people respond to us. The problem is that what we radiate is linked our subconscious beliefs and feelings and this cannot be controlled consciously. It is important that we change how we feel.

If we want to be in charge of our life in this crazy world, it is important that we learn how to work with the law of attraction. There are only four things we have to do:

e ear of what we want for our lives. (If we don’t know the details, we can be clear on how we want to feel. It is about having an intention of what we want for our lives..
Connect with that intention (preferably) daily.
Ensure that you are happy. E.g. If we feel angry, instead of letting ourselves run with that anger, we actively look for ways to feel better. We might need to get help to understand our anger, we probably need to do forgiveness work and more. On my web site are some great videos on the forgiveness process called Ho’oponopono. Go and watch them and APPLY IT.
Do things you enjoy. Take inspired action. We will get ideas of what we can do next. Inspired action is energising. When we get this idea, go and do it. These things make us feel energised. Let’s stop doing things that we dread. Read my blog on how to refuse doing jobs you dislike and still get the job done!.

You will also learn great tools to take charge of your life in this crazy world with our From Victim to Master course!

In Conclusion

The more we take responsibility for everything that happens in our life, the more we are in charge. Apply the four points mentioned above and life will change, guaranteed.
​I am speaking out of experience.

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